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Bunnie Xo says the end of her marriage to country star Jelly Roll has opened a new chapter. In a recent “Today” show appearance she framed the split as a painful turn that also brought unexpected clarity and opportunity. The conversation covered her plans for motherhood, life as a newly single woman and why she wants women to reclaim time for themselves.
How Bunnie Xo framed the split and the silver lining
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Alisa DeFord, known professionally as Bunnie Xo, told hosts she sees the divorce as a complex moment—emotionally difficult but with an upside. She described it as a turning point that revealed fresh possibilities.
She emphasized that personal stories aren’t defined only by past relationships, and urged viewers to focus on broader parts of a person’s life.
Plans for motherhood and a new book chapter
Bunnie confirmed she still wants to become a mother. She said this desire will be part of a forthcoming book, which will chronicle the emotional and practical path she’s taken since the split.
- She called the experience intense and transformational.
- She previously had considered trying for a child with Jelly Roll.
- The new book will explore that journey and what she’s learned.
Motherhood remains a priority, she told interviewers, framing it as one of the next big chapters in her life.
Embracing singledom: dating, DMs and self-care
After nearly a decade of marriage, Bunnie says she is enjoying being single. Her inbox has become crowded with messages and offers of interest.
She described her direct messages as a lively mix of thoughtful notes and playful pickup lines. The volume, she said, makes choosing replies a fun dilemma.
On reclaiming time and self-investment
Bunnie urged women to stop sidelining their own needs. She shared how she’s intentionally redirecting energy back to herself after years of prioritizing others.

“Sometimes you need to be selfish and pour into yourself,” she explained, noting that reinvesting in one’s own wellbeing can be empowering.
Legal timeline and public remarks from Jelly Roll
The musician filed for divorce on May 18, citing irreconcilable differences. The separation moved through the legal system and the couple reached a settlement in July.
- May 18 — divorce filing.
- July — settlement finalized.
Even after the split, Jelly Roll has publicly suggested they will maintain a friendly bond. In a June concert he told fans they would remain close.
What Bunnie wants the public to take away
While she stopped short of calling herself a role model, Bunnie expressed hope that others might draw strength from her story. She invited people to learn from both her missteps and her growth.
Her message: difficult moments can lead to reinvention and resilience.












