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Danny DeVito is savoring a new chapter of family life, one filled with pasta visits, impromptu drop-ins and the kind of easy devotion only a proud grandparent can show. Living close to two of his grandchildren has rekindled his playful side, and the actor is openly enjoying the role of doting grandfather while juggling work and a deep affection for his New Jersey roots.
Doting granddad: spontaneous visits and family rituals
DeVito admits he often feels the urge to hop in his car and see the kids at a moment’s notice. He likes calling ahead, asking if he can swing by for dinner, or simply to share a bowl of pasta. He describes this phase as one of the most joyful in his life, full of small, familiar routines.
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Who’s who in the DeVito next generation
The actor’s family circle includes three adult children and two nearby grandchildren. Below is a quick snapshot:
- Lucy, 42 — mother to Carmine, about 15 months old.
- Gracie, 40 — mother to Sinclair, roughly two-and-a-half years old.
- Jake, 38 — DeVito’s son; lives outside the immediate grandchildren loop.
Living just minutes from his daughters makes frequent visits easy. He often jokes about needing a “fix” of family time and treats those moments like little celebrations.
Passing on culture: joking about “real Italians”
DeVito playfully says he wants his grandchildren to carry forward certain family quirks. He teases that their speech, mannerisms and love of food will reflect their Italian-American upbringing. He envisions a household full of warm accents and hearty meals, delivered with the kind of humor he is known for.
Small traditions, big impact
- Shared meals — the classic catalyst for family stories.
- Casual visits — drop-in check-ins that keep bonds tight.
- Playful teasing — passing down regional expressions and humor.
Relationship with Rhea Perlman: separated but close
DeVito and actress Rhea Perlman, the mother of his three children, separated years ago but have chosen not to formalize a divorce. They remain on friendly terms and maintain mutual respect. Perlman has spoken publicly about their long partnership and the strong family foundation they built.
The pair prioritize their children and shared history over legal separation, a decision they say reflects their continuing connection.
New Jersey pride: hosting the Hall of Fame
Beyond family life, DeVito will represent his home state as the host of the 17th Annual New Jersey Hall of Fame Induction Ceremony. The event, scheduled for Nov. 21, will honor notable figures including Dorothea Bongiovi, educator Drury Thorp and physicist Shirley Ann Jackson.
He speaks warmly of Garden State character: straightforward, spirited and honest. DeVito says Jersey people tell you how it is — no sugarcoating, and he appreciates that candid attitude.
What the ceremony means to him
- Recognition of local contributors to arts, science and education.
- A chance to celebrate community spirit he says is uniquely Jersey.
- An opportunity to return home and connect with fans and neighbors.
